It’s not as dramatic as the title sounds, but hey, I got something published in a little local UNESCO magazine. Yippee!
I was asked to share about Malaysia in the local schools here in South Korea, under the Unesco Cross Cultural Awareness Program, and after the presentation, I had to write a report to Unesco about my thoughts of this program.
I was invited to share about the Malaysian culture, people, arts, etc… to school children. After my very first presentation, I was sooooo proud of myself because I remembered all my Malaysian history… lol. And after the second presentation, I was like, wow… I’m really Malaysian… hahaha…
A BIG THANKS to Viola Chan for helping me edit my terrible writing.
Here is my article:
I’m Not Korean
I think this is an amazing program introduced by the Korean government – which is to spread the knowledge of different cultures and of people from around the world.
Last Saturday, I went to a high school under the UNESCO CCAP program to introduce Malaysia. I had a great time sharing the Malaysian culture with the students. I think it’s a great idea to start introducing this program to children since they are the future generation.
The first impression I got of Korean students was that they work very hard; they must do, since they go to school at weekends too. I never had to go to school at weekends. When I told the Korean students that class starts at about 7am and finishes at about 1pm in Malaysia, they couldn’t believe it.
So far, I’ve been in Korea for more than a year; and this is what I’ve come to realize. Most Koreans expect a foreigner to look like a caucasian, or be colored in some way. To Koreans, I look like one of them. When I’m in Japan, they say I look Japanese. When I’m in Taiwan, they say I look Taiwanese.
I suppose I do look like a Korean since I have fair Asian skin and black hair. No one suspects I’m a foreigner until I speak. Many Koreans do not realize that people from different nations can also look like them, and that foreigners need not necessarily be African or Indian.
Coming from a multicultural and multi-ethnic country has its advantages. When I was in school, I had Malay, Indian and Dayak friends, friends of different cultures and skin colour. People appreciate each other for who they are instead of where they are from. Over time, people learn to develop tolerance for one another, and this eventually leads to acceptance and friendships. This means less racism as people appreciate each other’s ways and practices.
Korean, on the other hand, is more homogeneous – especially so in smaller town and villages, In fact, I’ve often been mistaken for a Korean since I arrived more than a year ago. And this isn’t always a good thing.
Let me share a few incidents with you:
When I go to the market for my grocery shopping, the Ahjumas stare at me the moment I speak. When I go to a shopping mall and try my very best to speak Korean, the shop assistants realize instantly that I’m a foreigner (Uigukgin). They sometimes walk away or ignore me for fear of not being able to communicate with me in English.
When I’m with my foreign friends, I’d speak in English. When I do this on the bus, nearly everyone on the bus would turn their heads to stare at us, especially the children. When I converse in English with my husband, people wonder why we do not converse in Korean.
Once I was standing between a Spanish and a Columbian. A University Professor came by and greeted the Spanish and the Columbian with much enthusiasm. He asked where they were from, and said “Oh, we are happy to see international people!”. I was about to extend my hands to introduce myself, but he just walked off! I feel a little sorry for foreigners who look Korean since they will most likely be regarded as a local Korean and therefore will not be singled out for a special welcome.
These are just a few humorous moments of my life in South Korea. When my friend asked if I would like to share my Malaysian culture with school children, I was really excited! I wanted to show the children that a foreigner could look like a Korean too! Hopefully, I can do something to minimize the stares a foreigner like me gets when he or she looks or talks differently.
Nearly all of us have a foreigner as a friend. Following the development of the Internet, distances between people and countries have become smaller and smaller. The world is truly a global village.
Our neighbours may or may not look like us, and may or may not share the same culture. One thing’s for sure – our experiences have become richer and better for having known and appreciated the various different cultures and peoples of the world. My life here in Korea is like an extended adventure – I never know what new experiences each day will bring. And I am sure when the day comes for me to leave Korea, my friends at home will think I have become a little Korean in my ways.
Flora Aik
A Malaysian living in Korea
p/s Malaysian Embassy, if you happen to come across this, you should seriously think of making me an Ambassador of Malaysia!
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